Public
form (I would not be surprised if most women from Latin American and Asia meet
the same profile as European women.)
Through
my company, I haven lucky to have had the opportunity to live in different
corners of the world and experience many different cultures. Getting to see
multiple cultures ads more knowledge but also sometimes makes you ask
questions.
While
living in Europe I was lucky enough to have meet a very smart and gorgeous
women, we dated for a few years when I asked her to marry me. After getting
married I was relocated back to the US and my company took care of the
paperwork and she moved with me.
One
of the things that I can say happened personally to me and to some other
co-workers is that we started preferring dating European women and no longer
even consider dating American women.
Trying
to figure out the cultural difference's between European and American womens to
try to figure out "Why?", why we don't date American women. So we
decided to post a topic to find out more.
Here
is a comparison of what we have come up with, again this are just general and
some of them might be a stereotype. But that is why we want to discuss them
here.
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Most European women are very Independent, they want to have some life outside
of the relationship. American women want to do everything as a couple.
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Most European women prefer to be financially responsible, like they would
rather pay for their own dinner when in the US, its automatically expected that
guys have to buy gifts and pay for dinner.
-
European women prefer to be healthy, have very active lifestyle. Going to the
gym, biking and walking is the thing to do. I am not saying that all American
women are not into a healthy lifestyle but its certainly a small percentage in
comparison. Unfortunately for some of my friends who married American women
once they got married they gained weight... blaming it on childbirth and things
like that when I can say for a fact from my and my friends European wifes that
after child birth after some months they where back to their previous weight
without even trying but just because of their healthy lifestyle.
- In
Europe, its common for couples to live together and of course have sex before
they are married, I think thats great because you get to know what it is to
marry someone, no surprises. But I noticed in America that is a taboo specially
around Christian's who look down at those who live together or are sexually
active with their loved ones before they are married. How can someone make a
lifetime commitment before knowing what they are getting into.
The
guys I work with have discussed this greatly, which I think its great to know
people I can be that comfortable with the only negative thing that has come out
of it is that we have discussed this with other's at work who have divorced
their American Wife and re-married European. I don't think thats cool but they
are happier now.
All I
can say is that I am madly in love with my wife, my wife means everything to
me.
Courtesy:
http://www.topix.com/forum/business/online-dating/T05BKAV2C9UKNM5F5